Being Rude and Inconsiderate is OK?

Being Rude and Inconsiderate is Ok in China

http://thisischina-shamous755.blogspot.com/2012/05/being-rude-and-inconsiderate-is-ok-in.html

Hikari's response

Although I do agree with you that in certain situations you don't have to be apologetic, being thankful in all situation is a must.

I would always be thankful for my 1st, 2nd, 10th refill of water at anyone's place/restaurants because they help me to refill my drinks. Who cares whether they do it because of their own initiative or because it's their job? All I know is they DID help me to refill my drink.

When your situation is bad, your bad attitude, lack of gratitude and lack of kindness make it feels worse.

You might think it's okay (for now) because this is happening in China but the problem is, most of them are still not happy anyway once they have succeed and continue these.. so called culture or normality. They shove people out of the way even when they don't have to. They steal other people food even when they have lots of money to buy their own food.

And what makes it worse is that the Chinese immigrants tend to bring this culture to other countries which almost always ends up causing disputes with the locals.

You want prove? http://www.thestar.com.my/News/Community/2013/08/10/Shameful-Raya-tapauing-Community-body-slams-certain-open-house-guests-for-unashamedly-taking-away-f.aspx

So I can't agree with your opinion about this matter. Just because your situation forces you to do so doesn't mean it's right or it's alright.

Oh, furthermore...

“This is a shameful act and not acceptable in our culture,” Ting said, adding that he believed most of these people were educated and from quite well-off families.

Even though he said that, this article proves otherwise. Read the comments too. They're interesting.

http://www.squidoo.com/new-chinese-immigrants-why-are-they-so-rude-

As a Malay (Malaysian refers to citizens of Malaysia, Malay is a race. A person of the Chinese race can be a Malaysian too), I would have to agree with above article. Not all Chinese are like that of course.